Sunday, February 24, 2008

Oh, the boogers they pick


This is an old story with a new twist. Several years ago when Cora was about 2, Carol caught her picking her nose and eating it, in the backseat. Carol told her "Ew, that's gross don't do that." To which Cora responded, "Nu-uh, it's yummy." Fast forward 3 years to the very recent past. Yesterday we were driving and Cora pipes up, "EW, Mom, Maren is picking her nose and trying to give it to me... Now she is trying to give me her ear wax." Of course Jessica cannot be left out on this pleasantness so a few days ago Carol was telling her not to pick her nose and eat it because it is yucky. Jess's response, "Uh uh Mom, it's good. How do you know, you've never tried it." So there you are three booger picking cuties. Just so you don't think it is all boogers and earwax at our house. Maren has also picked up on the music portion of Church. Today we were sitting very near the front on the left side of the chapel, which happens to be where the music is conducted from. Maren figured out what was going on with the music quite readily and started both singing and leading at the same time. Nothing quite so cute as her little arm jutting out bobbing up and down completely out of time and with absolutely no pattern or direction. The trend continued tonight as we were singing the girls songs before bed she again sang and lead but this time she had a birthday card of mine and was "reading" it as if it were a hymn book. She is a smart cookie.

Josh

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Sweeties






























I have sweet girls. Last night Jess was stalling going to bed as I was closing the door. She says "Daddy." "What Jess." "Um...Um...Um...Um...when...um...when will Jesus come again?" How sweet was that. Then this morning Carol was dropping me off at school and as I was getting out Jess says, "Daddy come give me a kiss." To top if off Carol and I have a sign for I love you. It is middle finger and ring finger down and all the other fingers and thumb extended. So Carol and I and the girls all do it, and this morning Maren, in her half asleep state did it to me after I gave her a kiss. As I was walking around the truck to give Jess her kiss Carol was trying to elicit the same response and Maren shook her head no each time. I got a little kick out of the whole thing. They are so sweet. I love them so much.

Sunday, February 17, 2008

A lesson in Conditioning

First, how does everyone like the new Americana look. I probably should have been getting ready for church or something in that realm but I was playing instead. It's okay though because we managed to get to church about 10 minutes early still. Now, take a quick second and scroll down paying particular attention to the number of comments on each post this month. Now that you have looked at that let me tell you a quick story about B.F. Skinner. Skinner is a very famous psychologist who developed a theory of personality called Behaviorism. In large part Skinner said that the only way to truly scientifically study psychology is through behavior since cognition is beyond the scope of experimental testing. He was wrong, but at the time it caught on like wild fire. A major component of this theory was based upon Pavlov's work. Pavlov inadvertently trained a group of dogs to salivate at the sound of a bell by pairing the presentation of food with a bell. Soon Pavlov had dogs that would salivate whenever the bell rang. Skinner believed this was an extraordinary example of the power of behavioral measures. The story continues that in a class where Skinner was explaining this to his students his class decided to perform a little conditioning on Skinner. Skinner had a habit of pacing the room when he lectured, and the class decided to perk up when he spoke from the left side of the room and act disinterested when he spoke from the right. The process continued of splitting the lecture area in half until he was speaking from only one corner of the room. Skinner was completely unaware until the end of the semester when the class informed him of their little experiment. Now what, you ask, does that have to do with the comments section on the previous posts. Essentially in my over analytical mind I see a very positive reinforcement for posting pictures of Carol and I and very little reinforcement for posting pictures of the girls. (In any experiment you have an independent - read manipulated - variable and a dependent - read outcome - variable). In this case the IV is the type of picture and the DV is the amount of comments. I cannot change the amount of comments without changing the type of picture. Now obviously I am not going to start posting pictures of just Carol and I, (I actually considered weeding it down and finding out if there would be more comments for just me, just carol, or both). However, this has practical importance, not because it validates me and the things I have learned, but because this is the type of research that goes into every commercial and advertisement you see. And consequently without ever realizing it, your purchasing dollars are reinforcing companies for the type of advertisements they use. For example, if a company puts a sexually explicit ad in a magazine that is typically traditional in its values (lets say Martha Stewart Living) and they have an increase in sales, they are going to assume the ad had an effect. If they are privileged enough to have any demographic data they will be further reinforced when they see an increase in sales in their product that correlates with sales in the magazine. And now you have some sense of the torturous nature of not being able to shut this voice in my head up when these things start rampantly spuing forth into my consciousness. And we haven't even touched on the unconscious forces at work. FUN no. Beyond that. Everything here is going well. Church was the same as usual. Third Sunday and all, the girls managed it better than I. I was seriously considering holding Maren on my lap just to get her to start whining so I could sit in the Foyer. But all that aside my class was surprisingly well behaved during primary. I actually think they might be improving. (I wonder if I could condition them). And then I talked to Mom after church and she told me all about the crazy snowiness in Utah. Sorry that sucks for all of you there. Anyway, not much else has changed here. We are looking forward to another visit from Zeb and Leah in two weeks, and hoping Zeb gets a second internship in Dallas, so he can take us out to dinner with all that extra income (just kidding, but I do really like Texas Roadhouse, just in case you were thinking about it). Beyond that valentines was good. I got Carol some flowers and well I won't go into details about what else, and she got me Jack Johnson's CD. It's quite good, and very relaxing. It has that kind of island, layed back, feel to it. And now I need to go check on the girls and see about dinner. (I will be posting some pictures soon, I just don't feel like it right now.)

Josh

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Grownups?


















I realized that most of these pictures do not have adults in them, and I really get annoyed at that sometimes so here are some pictures of adults being kids, and Carol since I don't have any ones of her being a kid (but I am pretty sure she's giving me a dirty look). The first three are from Thanksgiving (oooohhh turkey).

Josh

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Pictures for Everyone

Just a few pictures for fun!

Yeah for Mullets

Maren has reached the mullet phase. She is still so dang cute, and actually for one of our girls she is doing really well. To demonstrate Jessica is still in the mullet phase though her hair is long enough to pull up into a decent pony tail, which offers some saving grace. Anyway, I took my first test of this semester. All I can say is that I am grateful for the help of the lord and my wife. The lord for helping me remember things that I know I haven't devoted enough time to, and Carol for allowing me the time that I do get to study. I really think I did better than I probably earned considering I haven't spent a single Saturday studying. I intend to but it seems like Saturday night hits and I am wondering where the time went. So let me reaffirm I have been getting a lot of help from the lord. Although I think it helps that the time I am not studying is usually devoted to family time, I don't think I would be so blessed if that weren't the case.

Josh


Monday, February 11, 2008

Twilight

So, Carol and I aren't so good at keeping secrets/surprises. Not that it was a surprise at all but last week we went and got me a new pair of sunglasses for my birthday/valentines. Naturally I had to be there to pick them out and I have been wearing them ever since. (I needed a new pair since I lost mine the last time we were in Waco ; . () And then I got Carol the books in the Twilight series for valentines. We listened to the first book on the way home from Utah. She has been wanting to read the next one and I picked up all three a little while ago and had wrapped it and hid it away, but then determined wife that she is, she started probing around the ward to borrow a copy and even went to the library to check it out but it was fortunately checked out, so it didn't ruin my surprise, but then Saturday night she started thinking about who she could call in the ward to borrow it from so I just had to let her have it. She started reading Saturday night and she just finished it today, Monday around 6. I am quite proud of what I have done for her. She wasn't much of a reader when we got married and she just devoured 560 pages in three days. Funny, since she used to get upset at me when we were first married, and didn't have kids, for spending so much time reading. Now I just wish I could justify taking that much time to read something that wasn't related to school. Oh well, not all of my reading is boring, just most of it. Occasionally there will be a really interesting case study or new phenomena that I haven't heard about and that will peak my interest for a while, but generally it's not so fun. Someday I will have some time to just sit down and read like I used to, but until the kids are either in school, or I am done with school I don't see it happening. Maybe this summer. Then again maybe I will completely ignore my studies one weekend and just read something for fun. Or spring break is coming. Then again, Carol is still incredibly jealous of my time. We'll see. Here's to hope.

Josh

Friday, February 8, 2008

Not in Utah anymore...

Yes, we have not been in Utah for some time. But sometimes I am made aware of that fact yet again. On Cora's first day back to school from Utah, Mrs. Wallace (Cora's teacher) confirmed that we were from Utah and asked if " are ya'll mormon?" I said yes. Then she said " I didn't know that ya'll celebrated Christmas." I went on to explain that we are christian and briefly described the sixth article of faith. Then yesterday, Mrs. Wallace asked if "we" celebrate valentines day. I was a little shocked that I was being asked that question. Why would there be a religious objection to valentines day? I find myself amazed of peoples perception of our church. I think a lot of things will be cleared up with Romney's former campaign.

Carol

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

A game and a sad laugh

Okay, Here is the game. Which one of my sweet daughters is this. I purposely chose a generic background so you couldn't cheat by looking at where we were living.

So, I guess that wasn't as hard as I thought it might be. It is Jess. Next time I will find a much more difficult one.

On a much different note, Carol and I were folding laundry and surfing the net the other night when I get a phone call. It's an 801 798 number so I answer and lo and behold it's grandpa Fish. So I say hi and start talking and he says I've got a problem with my computer. I need you to look at it. So I ask if I can do it over the phone and he says no I don't think so you would have to look at it. And then I say Grandpa, I am in Texas. He laughs and starts asking if he has the right number. I tried to explain that I am using a Utah cell phone number but he just didn't quite get it. Carol and I thought it was quite silly and sad at the same time. Still it was good to hear Dr. J even if his mind is slipping. I love Grandpa.
He is doing pretty well considering he's 94.

Josh

Sunday, February 3, 2008

Superbowl


A little fact for all you who don't know (or just as likely don't remember). Josh and I have kind of hit a little milestone. On a superbowl sunday ten years ago, Josh in his total lack of tactful flirting, took my hand away from Jason (to help Annette). We ended up holding hands through the rest of the game; even while he talked to Kimberly on the phone and convinced her to talk to my parents and let us stay through the whole game. That began our relationship. He kissed me, oh wait, I kissed him about a week later and we have been together ever since (Hosh says "yes, the kiss was that good").
On a little side note, I can't help but brag about our beautiful weather that we are having. On our way home from church around 2pm, it was 84 degrees outside. I can't get over it. It's supposed to be "winter" outside. The girls have been running around near naked at times because they are so hot. We have the windows open and there is a cool night breeze. It's wonderful. I hope that you all are enjoying your weather as we are.

Carol